Sunday, April 01, 2007

NEW MONTH EQUALS NEW THINGS!

Its a new month!! April here i come.I have prayed that this month would be a good one for me. I have to admit, January wasn't a very great month for me. Apart from the fact that i was ill on the 1st of January (sad), that wasn't the only thing that got messed up for me. Loads of stuff has been happening that i am not happy about. I know that we cannot control the daily happenings in our life, but we are in control of our destiny (i believe this strongly) so things will definetely change for me (for the better) by the grace of God.
I just wanted to say a big "THANK YOU" to my fellow bloggers for their words of encouragement. I don't really know you guyz but i feel like i know you well already. I opened this blog out of boredorm, but now things have changed. I was feeling a bit down and that was why i commented on being unappreciated. I think one day, i would bring myself to explain what i meant by that, but i do feel better now (except from the fact that i think i'm getting a fever).
This are my prayers this month:
1) I pray that i don't fall ill cos i feel like i'm about to get a fever (Loads of headaches)
2) I pray someone suprises me in a good way this month (i've never had a suprise before)
3) I pray my dad travels soon
4) I pray he (my dad) buys me a new phone
5) I pray i see the people i have missed alot soon enough
6) I pray i catch up with my school work
7) I pray that the one thing i have been wanting will happen
8) I pray i stop "feeling" altogether
9) I pray i will be "WHOLE" someday
10) I pray that i am more appreciated this month

Well, thats what i have asked God to do in my life this month. When any of those things i have prayed for happens, i will inform you guyz. I hope you guyz have a great month as well.
Onto something else. I heard a story from one of my freinds about some Arab singer called Zekra. Well, according to my freind, this woman was killed in 2003 by her husband. Apparently, she was very popular in the Arab music scene. Well the story goes that she got married to some guy like that. She was already very popular when she married the guy. Enewayz, the bobo was very jealous of her music career, & he banned her from having guyz in her videos. He infact took control on the directing of her videos.
One day, i guess he got so jealous that he took a gun & pumped 26 bullets into her, 22 bullets into her secretary & 18 into her manager. He then shot himself. The woman was from Tunisia and he (her husband) was Egyptian.
I just felt that i had to share this story with you guyz. Its such a shame. I don't know how a man can do that to his own wife. He shot her 26 times!!! i don't get it. Did he hate her, or love her too much, or what???? What made him do it????

34 comments:

SCOMISS said...

PHOTOSHOP

chicala said...

thanks for stopping by @ my blog. i think that arab man must be insane, what else would a sane man have done that for. oh well, such is life...........strange things always happen shey.
Dont wory God will answer all those ur prayers o my broda, he wants you to be happy soo......jst expect evry single thng this month.
Have a great easter!!!!!!!!!

invisifriend said...

I thought this was a GIRL? Anyway, wanted to send words of encouragement that I LIKE you. I just like your vibe from things Ive read in your comments, we are on the same page! I wont say what, but God grant all your blessings and wishes and take care of yourself so your body will take care of you.
Are you still in dubai? I just saw some nasty nigerian girls that were there and I can imagine what they were up to and why the arabs wont be thinking everyone is like them. Stupid dirty cvnts.
Sha make I no rant for uar blog.

byebie

chidi said...

@chicala- i just wanted to correct you. I am a gal

@invisifreind-yes i am a girl (lol)

chidi said...

@invisifreind-thanks

chika said...

thanks for stopping by and may all your wishes come through

Pseudo-Independence? said...

26 bullets into his wife, 22 bullets into her secretary & 18 into her manager,

This is not April fool is it?

Klara said...

That story is a sob one! So sad. Jelousy is a killer!
Am also enthusiastic about this month n pray it turns out good!
Some advice:
"What happens around us is largely outside our control but the way we choose to react to it is not"
Good Luck this Month

law_damsel said...

May ur prayers be answered dis month!..D guy was prob just one of those possessive guys..they scare me

Naija Vixen said...

26 tymes?my guy,she don die already now!that's a terrible story tho and may all ur wishes come true oh!

Jem said...

Amen !! new month = new things = new accomplishments = zero dissappointments

The Blahnik Diva said...

hope your prayers get answered this month! that guy is a sick sick bastard!

ijeoma obu iheoma said...

i hope he answers your prayers darling..

as for the man, lets not even begin to rationalise what drove him to do it.. Its beyond comprehension

Idemili said...

I just read her story on the internet. What gives people so much power to take another person's life? Sad doesn't even begin to cover it.

Idemili said...

Bookmarked!

Kpakpando said...

he certainly didn't love her, he wanted to own her. Lord deliver us from insecure men like him. Amen

Beyond said...

Amen to those prayer my sis. The guy has issues.

Nyemoni said...

Man. The hubby was INSANE!!! Phew! That said, I want to say a big AMEN to all your prayers!!!

Waffarian said...

My dear, never underestimate the power of jealousy. That is why as women, we should always watch out for these signals.

chioma said...

how sad,.thats a case of serious insecurity..I did a mothers day post on a friend who was battered by her husband. Amen to your prayers..single ladies beware the signs r always there.

iROCKORiGiNALiTY said...

And I pray that your prayer will come to pass.Amen as for the lady and her music career thats really sad.RIP.

Ugo Daniels said...

Its really a sad end for the poor lady. Jealousy can be a BIATCH most times.

Nywayz, i pray your wishes and dreams come to fruition...Amen

Ejura said...

That's grotesque!
May men like that drown in a bottomless sea before they get to any one of us!Amen!
I heard of one who stabbed his wife and drowned her in a pool but claimed he was sleep walking!

LondonBuki said...

May God answer your prayers... I hope your daddy gets you a new ohone too! :-)

My goodness! That story about the guy who shot his wife TWENTY SIX times is horrendous!

Have a beautiful month!

temmy tayo said...

The guy deserves to be killed slowly.... chineke, that is gross!

zaiprincesa said...

May Almighty God answer all ur prayers ..Amen..

And the Arab Singer's story is so sad...Why would her husband just kill her like that??..that aint love oh..that one was some kind of obsession..

Kewl blog...

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adumaadan - Blacktinkerbell said...

I don't understand this thing. I never will. Is it love that motivated that man or was it pure madness?

Bella Naija said...

Thta's such a sad story!
Geeeez, some men are just absolutely useless.
U r doing a really great job with ur blog Chidi

Im A Babe said...

gurllllllll tell me abt crazy men! im addicted 2 shows lyk forensic files nd stuff... and its sad 2 say that most of the women that were found dead were murdered by their husband...from druggin 'em 2 decaputatin 'em....JUST ABSOLUTELY RIDICULOUS

anyhow sha, i hope all ur prayers are answered 2 my dear.

Vera Ezimora said...

26 bullets in2 his wife?! Chidi, I dunno what to say o. Strange things r happening in this world, so I dunno what to say or think. All I can do it pray that God helps us o.

chicala said...

sory bout that girl, always had this stereotype bout only guys being called chidi, dnt mind me. nice blog, and update soon o.

laspapi said...

hello chidi, thank you for stopping by.
I don't understand the kind of mind that shoots a spouse more than 20 times and then turns on by-standers too.
It's a 2 way thing, though -Jealous females have been known to toss acid.

Sparkle said...

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